This message was read on Saturday 05/28/2005 at the reunion. We think it should be remembered and shared with all of us.

 

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To:    Ervinton High School Class of 1965

 

At the end of May,1965, we put on our caps and gowns and walked across the stage here at Ervinton High School. Saturday morning, we met and received our diplomas. It would be the last time we would all be together. Did we think of that at the time?  I, for one, did not.

 

We said goodbye to a few and should have taken the time to say goodbye to all. That, I have regretted more than once over the last forty years.

 

But, life was waiting for us and we had to be on our way.

       

                              “SOME OF US”

 

When we left that day- in 1965

 

Some of us turned left and some of us turned right.

 

Some of us went to college and some of us went to work.

 

Some of us stayed in the area and some of us moved away.

 

Some of us went to Vietnam and most of us stayed here.

 

To those who went, from those who stayed, we are proud of you and are glad you came home.

Some of us got married and some of us did not.

Some of us got divorced and tried it again.

Some of us got it right the first time. Some the second.

Some of us never tried it again.

 

Some of us had children and some of us did not.

 

Some of us have grandchildren now and some of us do not.

To those who don’t have, from those who do, we hope that happens for you.

It may just be the purest form of love on this earth.

 

Some of us have worked for someone else all our lives.

Some of us, either by choice or chance, now have our own companies and guide our own ships.

Both are noble. Both are right. Neither better than the other.

 

 

Some of us crawled into a bottle and some of us did not.

Some of us stayed in it and some of us crawled back out.

To those who stayed in, from those who crawled back out, life is truly better out. Just take a look at the faces of those who love you. There lies the answer.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Some of us found our nitch in life.

Some of us are still searching.

Some of us just gave up.

 

Some of our hair has turned white.

Some has turned loose.

What remains, some of us have colored and some of us use only mousse.

 

Life has hardened some of us. Age has mellowed some of us.

Hopefully, we have all found some degree of inner peace.

 

Some of us are no longer on this earth.

To those who have gone, from those of us still here, we are sad. If we have not already done so, we will, on some rainy Saturday afternoon, remember you and shed a tear.

 

Some of us made it here tonight and some of us did not.

To those who didn’t, from those who did, we missed you and hope you are well.

 

May 28, 2005 it has been forty years since we walked these halls here at Ervinton High School. Life has a way of consuming our time, our thoughts, our bodies, and our spirits.

 

Life 101 should have been taught at Ervinton High School and should have been a required course. Teenagers can be cruel and thoughtless and we were no different. We should have taken more time to get to know and respect each other. If we had, we would have stayed in contact much more and more of us would have been here tonight. I, for one, regret my actions or lack thereof.

 

That brings us to the question, “How about our next reunion?

Yes, we should plan on another reunion  here at Ervinton High School or at some place.

We should have one no matter if only two of us show up.

 

Some of us will no longer be on this earth and some of us will.

Because of death, illness, or lack of interest, some of us will not make it to the next reunion.

All three reasons are sad.

 

For the last few minutes, hopefully, one of us has read this to you.

One of us wrote this. All of us have had these thoughts at some time in our lives.

Let’s just say that we all wrote this and make a promise that we will stay in touch.

 

Some of us will and some of us won’t. All of us should try.

 

                              With love to ALL from,  One Of Us

 

 

 

           THE CLASS REUNION

 

   Every ten years, as summertime nears,

   An announcement arrives in the mail,

   A reunion is planned; it'll be really grand,

   Make plans to attend without fail

 

   I'll never forget the first time we met;

   We tried so hard to impress.

   We drove fancy cars, smoked big cigars,

   And wore our most elegant dress

 

   It was quite an affair; the whole class was there.

   It was held at a fancy hotel.

   We wined, and we dined, and we acted refined,

   And everyone thought it was swell

 

   The men all conversed about who had been first

   To achieve great fortune and fame.

   Meanwhile, their spouses described their fine houses

   And how beautiful their children became

 

   The homecoming queen, who once had been lean,

   Now weighed in at one-ninety-six.

   The jocks who were there had all lost their hair,

   And the cheerleaders could no longer do kicks

 

   No one had heard about the class nerd

   Who'd guided a spacecraft to the moon;

   Or poor little Jane, who's always been plain;

   She married a shipping tycoon

 

   The boy we'd decreed "most apt to succeed"

   Was serving ten years in the pen,

   While the one voted "least" now was a priest;

   Just shows you can be wrong now and then

 

   They awarded a prize to one of the guys

   Who seemed to have aged the least.

   Another was given to the grad who had driven

   The farthest to attend the feast

 

 

 

 

   They took a class picture, a curious mixture

   Of beehives, crew cuts and wide ties.

   Tall, short, or skinny, the style was the mini;

   You never saw so many thighs

 

   At our next get-together, no one cared whether

   They impressed their classmates or not.

   The mood was informal, a whole lot more normal;

    By this time we'd all gone to pot.

 

   It was held out-of-doors, at the lake shores;

   We ate hamburgers, coleslaw, and beans.

   Then most of us lay around in the shade,

   In our comfortable T-shirts and jeans.

 

   By the fortieth year, it was abundantly clear,

   We were definitely over the hill.

   Those who weren't dead had to crawl out of bed,

   And be home in time for their pill.

 

   And now I can't wait; they've set the date;

   Our fiftieth is coming, I'm told.

   It should be a ball, they've rented a hall

   At the Shady Rest Home for the old

 

   Repairs have been made on my hearing aid;

   My pacemaker's been turned up on high.

   My wheelchair is oiled, and my teeth have been boiled;

   And I've bought a new wig and glass eye

 

   I'm feeling quite hearty, and I'm ready to party

   I'm gonna dance 'til dawn's early light.

   It'll be lots of fun; But I just hope that there's one

   Other person who can make it that night

 

   Author Unknown

 

 

 

SONG OF THE FLOWER

 

I AM A KIND WORD uttered and repeated

By the voice of Nature;

I am a star fallen from the

Blue tent upon the green carpet.

 

I am the daughter of the elements

With whom Winter conceived;

To whom Spring gave birth; I was

Reared in the lap of Summer and I

Slept in the bed of Autumn.

 

At dawn I unite with the breeze

To announce the coming of light;

At eventide I join the birds

In bidding the light farewell.

 

The plains are decorated with

My beautiful colors, and the air

Is scented with my fragrance.

 

As I embrace slumber the eyes of

Night watch over me, and as I

Awaken I stare at the sun, which is

The only eye of the day.

 

I drink dew for wine, and hearken to

The voices of the birds, and dance

To the rhythmic swaying of the grass.

 

I am the lover’s gift;

I am the wedding wreath;

I am the memory of a moment of happiness;

I am the last gift of the living to the dead;

I am a part of joy and a part of sorrow.

 

But I look up high to see only the light,

And never look down to see my shadow.

This is wisdom which man must learn.

 

Author: Kahlil Gibran

SONG OF THE WAVE

 

THE STRONG SHORE is my beloved

And I am his sweetheart.

We are at last united by love, and

Then the moon draws me from him.

I go to him in haste and depart

Reluctantly, with many

Little farewells.

 

I steal swiftly from behind the

Blue horizon to cast the silver of

My foam upon the gold of his sand, and

We blend in melted brilliance.

 

I quench his thirst and submerge his

Heart; he softens my voice and subdues

My temper.

At dawn I recite the rules of love upon

His ears, and he embraces me longingly.

 

At eventide I sing to him the song of

Hope, and then print smooth kisses upon

His face; I am swift and fearful, but he

Is quiet, patient, and thoughtful. His

Broad bosom soothes my restlessness.

 

As the tide comes we caress each other,

When it withdraws,

I drop to his feet in Prayer.

 

In the heaviness of night, when all

Creatures seek the ghost of Slumber, I

Sit up, singing at one time and sighing

At another. I am awake always.

 

Alas! Sleeplessness has weakened me!

But I am a lover, and the truth of love

Is strong.

I may weary, but I shall never die.

 

 

Author: Kahlil Gibran

 

 

 

 

 

      SONG OF FORTUNE

 

MAN and I are sweethearts

He craves me and I long for him,

But alas! Between us has appeared

A rival who brings us misery.

 

She is cruel and demanding,

Her name is Substance.

She follows wherever we go

And watches like a sentinel, bringing

Restlessness to my lover.

 

I search for my beloved in the forest,

Under the trees, by the lakes.

I cannot find him, for Substance

Has spirited him to the clamorous

City and placed him on the throne

Of quaking, metal riches.

 

I call for him with the voice of

Knowledge and the song of Wisdom.

He does not answer, for Substance

Has enticed him into the dungeon

Of selfishness, where avarice dwells.

 

I seek him in the field of Contentment,

But I am alone, for my rival has

Imprisoned him in the cave of gluttony

And greed. and locked him there

With painful chains of gold.

 

I call to him at dawn, when Nature smiles,

But he does not hear, for excess has

Laden his drugged eyes with sick slumber.

 

I call for him at eventide, when Silence rules

And the flowers sleep. But he responds not,

For his fear over what the morrow will

Bring, shadows his thoughts.

 

 

 

He yearns to love me;

He asks for me in his own acts. But he

Will find me not except in God’s acts.

 

He seeks me in the edifices of his glory

Which he has built upon the bones of others;

He whispers to me from among

His heaps of gold and silver;

But he will find me only by coming to

The house of Simplicity which God has built

At the brink of the stream of affection.

 

He desires to kiss me before his coffers,

But his lips will never touch mine except

In the richness of the pure breeze.

 

He asks me to share with him his

Fabulous wealth, but I will not forsake God’s

Fortune; I will not cast off my cloak of beauty.

 

He seeks deceit for medium; I seek only

The medium of his heart.

He bruises his heart in his narrow cell;

I would enrich his heart with my love.

 

My beloved has learned how to shriek and

Cry for my enemy, Substance; I would

Teach him how to shed tears of affection

And mercy from the eyes of his soul

And utter sighs of contentment through

Those tears.

 

Man is my sweetheart;

I want to belong to him.

 

 

 

Author: Kahlil Gibran

 

SONG OF THE RAIN

 

 I emerge from the heart of the sea and Soar with the breeze.

When I see a field in need,

 I descend and embrace the flowers and

       The trees in a million little ways.

 

I am the sigh of the sea;

The laughter of the field;

The tears of heaven.

 

   The voice of thunder declares my arrival;

   The rainbow announces my departure.

I am like earthly life which begins

With the cries from the pains of birth and ends

Under the upraised wings of death.

 

 The heat in the air gives birth to me,

 But in turn I subdue it

 As woman overcomes man with

 The strength she takes from him.

 

        I am dotted silver threads dropped from heaven

     By the gods. Nature then takes me, to adorn

Her fields and valleys.

 

The field and the cloud are lovers

And between them I am a messenger

I quench the thirst of the one;

I lighten the burden of the other.

 

 

 

 

I touch gently at the windows with my

Soft fingers, and my announcement is a

Welcome song. All can hear, but only

The sensitive can understand.

 

So I return again and again with love

from the deep sea of affection;

Laughter from the colourful field of the spirit

Tears from the endless heaven of memories.

 

 

         Author: Kahlil Gibran

 

   THE LIFE OF LOVE

 

 

 

 

                                  SPRING

 

COME, my beloved; let us walk amidst the knolls,

For the snow is water, and Life is alive from its

Slumber and is roaming the hills and valleys.

Let us follow the footprints of Spring into the

Distant fields, and mount the hilltops to draw

Inspiration high above the cool green plains.

 

  Dawn of Spring has unfolded her winter-kept gar­ment

 And placed it on the peach and citrus trees; and

 They appear as brides in the ceremonial custom of

 The Night of Kedre.

 

The sprigs of grapevine embrace each other like

Sweethearts, and the brooks burst out in dance

Between the rocks, repeating the song of joy;

And the flowers bud suddenly from the heart of

Nature, like foam from the rich heart of the sea.

 

Come, my beloved; let us drink the last of

Winter’s Tears from the cupped lilies, and soothe our spirits

    With the shower of notes from the birds, and wander

     In exhilaration through the intoxicating breeze.

     Let us sit by that rock, where violets hide; let us

     Pursue their exchange of the sweetness of kisses.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

                             SUMMER

 

   Let us go into the fields, my beloved, for the

    Time of harvest approaches, and the sun’s eyes

   Are ripening the grain.

 

   Let us tend the fruit of the earth, as the

  Spirit nourishes the grains of Joy from the

  Seeds of Love, sowed deep in our hearts.

 

  Let us fill our bins with the products of

  Nature, as life fills so abundantly the

  Domain of our hearts with her endless bounty.

 

  Let us make the flowers our bed, and the

  Sky our blanket, and rest our heads together

  Upon pillows of soft hay.

 

  Let us relax after the day’s toil, and listen

  To the provoking murmur of the brook.

 

 

Author: Kahlil Gibran

 

 

 

                               AUTUMN

 

Let us go and gather the grapes of the vineyard

For the winepress, and keep the wine in old

Vases, as the spirit keeps Knowledge of the

Ages in eternal vessels.

 

Let us return to our dwelling, for the wind has

Caused the yellow leaves to fall and shroud the

Withering flowers that whisper elegy to Summer.

 

Come home, my eternal sweetheart, for the birds

Have made pilgrimage to warmth and left the city.

Prairies suffering pangs of solitude. The jasmine

And myrtle have no more tears.

 

Let us retreat, for the tired brook has

Ceased its song; and the bubblesome springs

Are drained of their copious weeping; and

The cautious old hills have stored away

Their colourful garments.

 

Come, my beloved; Nature is justly weary

And is bidding her enthusiasm farewell

With quiet and contented melody.

 

 

 

Author: Kahlil Gibran

                                       

ER

                         WINTER

 

Come close to me, oh companion of my full life

Come close to me and let not Winter’s touch

Enter between us. Sit by me before the hearth

For fire is the only fruit of Winter.

 

Speak to me of the glory of your heart, for

That is greater than the shrieking elements

Beyond our door.

Bind the door and seal the transoms, for the

Angry countenance of the heaven depresses my

Spirit, and the face of our snow-laden fields

Makes my soul cry.

 

Feed the lamp with oil and let it not dim, and

Place it by you, so I can read with tears what

Your life with me has written upon your face.

 

Bring Autumn’s wine. Let us drink and sing the

Song of remembrance to Spring’s carefree sowing,

And Summer’s watchful tending, and Autumn’s

Reward in harvest.

 

Come close to me, oh beloved of my soul; the

Fire is cooling and fleeing under the ashes.

Embrace me, for I fear loneliness; the lamp is

Dim, and the wine which we pressed is closing

Our eyes. Let us look upon each other before

They are shut.

 

Find me with your arms and embrace me; let

Slumber then embrace our souls as one.

Kiss me, my beloved, for Winter has stolen

All but our moving lips.

 

You are close by me, My Forever.

How deep and wide will be the ocean of Slumber,

And how recent was the dawn!

 

 

    Nothing Can Hold Back A Dream

    It is born in the heart but lives in the mind
   If pushed to the side it comes back in time
   when you think it's forgotten, forever it seems
          Nothing can hold back a dream

   Through youth you travel with never a plan
   destiny carried you far from your homeland
   you missed your meadows, the field, the stream
          Nothing can hold back a dream

   Never a thought that your life would end
   you were young, you were running against the wind
  no thought to life and what it may mean
          Nothing could hold back a dream

   But there in your heart, deep in that place
   where dreams hide away while you run life's race
   was memory of country, of woods and stream
           Nothing can hold back a dream

   Now it calls to you, the great outdoors
   that dream in your heart you cannot ignore
   somehow you will find the way, the means
          Nothing can hold back a dream

                                             Copyright © JGStout/2006  

 

 

           Show me the way

 

   There hung a picture in the hall

   The house was warm although quite small

   I stopped to look almost every day

   At the beautiful angel showing the way

 

    To a small child much like me

    It gave me hope that she might be

    There to guide and be my friend

    From morning light to days long end

 

    When I grew up and moved away

    In the house the picture was there to stay

    Then when I grew into a man

    She was always there to hold my hand

 

     God makes angels, great and small

      Some just a picture on the wall

      But in life’s journey he shows the way

      To lead us safely home one day

 

                                            Copyright© JGStout/2006

 

 

                     

             In The Wilderness

      

         There are days when we all feel lost 

                days when we all feel alone       

                times when our sky is dark   

          when we are on a mountain of stone

 

          These are the times that test our faith 

                 and we bow our heads to pray           

           it is our faith that will carry us through 

                 to see the beauty of another day 

 

          There are days we spend in the wilderness       

            those times when our hearts are alone       

              have faith that he will come for us      

                and show us the way back home

 

                                              Copyright © JGStout/2006                             

 

 Dear Angela,

 

 I hope this letter finds you well, that your thoughts are filled with anticipation for the journey we will take this weekend and       happiness lives in every thought you think today.

 

It is not often that I write letters on religious subjects unless they are for someone who is depressed, has lost a loved one or just needs some comfort on their bad days. So I write this letter as a prayer for Angela because it is a prayer that lives in my heart.

 

Lord, I pray that you would give the gift of wisdom discernment and revelation to Angela. Help her to trust you with all her heart, not dependent on her own understanding, but trust in your wisdom to understand clearly the path she should walk. Help her to discern good from evil and be sensitive to the voice of the holy spirit saying, this is the path for you to take.

I know that much of her happiness in life depends on gaining wisdom and discernment, which your word says brings long life, wealth, recognition, protection, enjoyment, contentment and happiness. May all these things come to her because of your gift.

I pray that your perfect love will surround Angela, give her peace and protect her from fear. Wherever there is danger or good reason to fear, give her wisdom, protect her and draw her close to you. Help her not to deny her fears, but take them to you in prayer and seek deliverance from them. I prey that your love will penetrate her life and crowd out all fear while you plant words of love in her heart. Let faith take root in her mind and soul as she walks on the path you have chosen for her feet to follow.

I pray that Angela will find her identity in you and that you will help her to understand her worth through your eyes and your standards. May she recognize the unique qualities you have placed in her and be able to appreciate them. Please enable her to see herself the way you see her, understanding that you have a made her a little lower than the angels, but that you have crowned her with glory and honor.

Thank you, Lord that you care about her eternal future even more than I do and that it is secure in your hands. In the name of the father and the son we pray.

 

If God grants just one prayer in all my days… it is that your prayers be answered.

                                                                                                                 

                                                                                                                 Stay well….be happy

 

 

 

 

     The Strength I see In You   

 

              Like the symbol of our native land      

           in grand simplicity wherever she stands    

             Proud like the mighty mountains high  

               she awaits the day when she can fly

 

            With spread wings, untried but strong